You're Never Wrong

Why we argue with what is

Most of us are looking at our life and quietly telling it to be different.

Our health should be better. Our money should be more. Our relationships should be easier. And in that quiet telling, we are arguing with the universe. We are saying consciousness got it wrong.

But nothing can ever happen that was not meant to happen. If it happened, it was meant to happen.

I watched this play out in my own family recently. My son had his mock final exams coming up, and he worked all weekend doing extra shifts. He was tired. He went to get his computer out to study, and it fried itself. Brand new, year and a half old, just gone.

Most parents would see that as a disaster. But when we looked at it together, we could see what was really happening. He was sabotaging himself because he was resisting study. He wanted to enjoy life. The computer going sideways gave him permission to do that.

We laughed about it. He went to the Apple store and they confirmed it was fried, yet still under warranty it would take at least 4 weeks to fix. He has his final exams and that wouldn't work.

We asked what else can we do and what needs to happen to get a computer today? The store attendant was extremely helpful trying to find different options but we kept hitting dead ends. He finally said we have 1 computer left of this stock, it has way higher specs than your one, but if you pay the difference you can take it now.

So he got a higher-spec replacement brand new computer which will be perfect for uni next year. And he's not disadvantaged with his study for mocks and final exams. He sat his mocks anyway.

Our son stayed in the creative structure, kept his attitude in a high frequency and focused on the end result.

He treated the sabotaging resistance by recognising it and letting it be, and with that a solution appeared.

What changes when you stop arguing

The lesson stayed with me. What looks like a problem is often just your soul rearranging things so you can come back to yourself.

When you bring yourself back into presence, you stop arguing. You accept everything as it is right now, not because you have given up, but because you have recognised that this moment is perfect. It is the starting point.

And from a perfect starting point, anything can be created.

A gentle invitation

If this landed somewhere real for you today, that is worth paying attention to.

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Or simply start where this post began: notice one thing you have been quietly arguing with today, and let your hands go soft around it for sixty seconds.